“The future doesn’t happen to you. It happens through you.”— James Barbour® There’s this idea floating around that the future is a destination.Some far-off place that we’ll arrive at — eventually — if we just wait long enough. But the future doesn’t wait. It listens. It responds to what you’re
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How to Keep Moving Forward When Everything Feels Heavy There are days that feel heavier than others. Not because of any one thing, but because the weight of everything suddenly becomes visible. You’ve been carrying a lot—and maybe you didn’t even realize it. But here’s the truth: You don’t have
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You’re Not Lost — You’re Just Between Versions When the world doesn’t recognize who you’re becoming, it can feel like you’ve disappeared. But this in-between space is where real identity is formed. There’s a strange, uncomfortable space between who you were and who you’re becoming. The “between versions” of yourself.
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There’s a moment on every growth journey when you stop and think:“Wait… haven’t I been here before?” You’ve already done the work.You’ve had the breakthrough.You’ve learned the lesson. And yet — here it is again. Same emotion.Same fear.Same story. It can feel like failure.Like all the effort didn’t stick.Like you’re
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We live in a world that rewards visibility.Followers. Views. Applause. Recognition. And when we don’t have those things, it’s easy to assume something’s wrong. “I’m falling behind.”“People don’t see me.”“Maybe I missed my chance.” But let me offer you a different perspective: You’re not behind.You’re just not aligned. Visibility Without
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You Don’t Need Permission to Move Forward It’s easy to fall into the trap of waiting. Waiting for the plan to be perfect.Waiting for someone to give you the green light.Waiting until the timing feels just right.Waiting for permission. But here’s the truth: You don’t need permission to move forward.
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